Narcissism and The Patriarchy

This week a post I submitted to Rebelle Society just before Christmas (2016) has gone live. It’s called ‘Is Narcissism Inherent to the Patriarchy?‘ I love Rebelle Society and the writing on their site. It’s one of those places a Continue reading Narcissism and The Patriarchy

Self-responsibility: An Empath’s Super-power

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Over the past couple of years, I’ve spent a lot of time trying to understand the concept of responsibility and what it really means. I examined it through the perspective of the tarot, and came up with this: ‘The root Continue reading Self-responsibility: An Empath’s Super-power

If you are, so am I

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Out on a brief sojourn this morning, I was contemplating the concept of I AM. We’re told it’s the most powerful phrase in the Universe, and as I’m currently exploring the energy of narcissism through the video series, something became clear.

One of the prevalent experiences in the narcissist dynamic is projection, and if you conjugate the verb to be, you’ve got a pretty powerful projection tool. I am, you are, he/she/it is, we are, they are, you (pl) are. So anything you add after these words has the same impact as the powerful I AM statements we are encouraged to use as affirmations.

This is also a nod to the concept of Oneness; we could say that they all mean the same thing. When you say to someone else YOU ARE ____________, you’re actually saying I AM ___________. So it’s worth observing carefully what follows those words, because they’re a direct reflection of what’s in your field.

It also speaks again to the idea that healing begins within. We heal ourselves by addressing and acknowledging our own woundedness. We attain Oneness in the same way, by acknowledging the wounds of duality and healing the separation.

Just some morning ruminations.

Wishing you a beautiful day!

Big Love,
~ Jenny <3

Boundaried Self-love

I’ve recently joined something called the Wisdom Bloggers Sisterhood, which is a group of women bloggers joining forces to cover a specific topic each month. November is all about creative self love, using Cheryl Bridges’ book ‘28 Days of Creative Continue reading Boundaried Self-love

Narcissism and the Divine Feminine

Here’s a thought: narcissism is the antithesis of the divine Feminine. What does this mean for you and me? First I’m going to go broad, and then we’ll get personal. Really personal. The energetic realignment that’s been underway for decades Continue reading Narcissism and the Divine Feminine